It’s a simple idea: be nice to men. I literally woke in the middle of the night to this very thought. Stop complaining, enough with the bitching, the cold shoulders, the nagging, the demanding. It’s just not how they operate, nor what they respond to, and eventually turns them off so that neither party gets anywhere.
We all know the major differences between men and women that lead to miscommunication (and if you don't go buy Why Men Love Bitches or Women are from Venus, Men are from Mars immediately). Let’s find simple ways of catering to each other’s natures. In this case, we women can simply release our sometimes unbecoming tendencies (to verbally attack, speckle everything with adjectives and emotions, act like broken records, force them to feel your pain, etc.) and respect mens' needs for simplicity and directness.